Catholic church dating after divorce
I recently had the privilege of interviewing the founder of Catholic Therapists. Raphael Mental Health Counseling, PC, Allison Riccardi, and took the opportunity to ask her…
These days, there are a lot of people who are suffering silently through their troubles and feel completely alone, even when they are in the midst of a crowd of people because they are afraid to bring their problems out into the light.
My own Diocese of Phoenix and other dioceses around the country are revisiting their marriage requirements, lengthening preparation periods and examining couples closely, looking for trouble spots in their relationships and families of origin—indications that they may not be ready for the vocation of marriage just yet.
For many who have been hurt by divorce, dating presents understandable challenges to trust, Beyond that, children are often thrown in the mix presenting more important considerations than any that revolve around two adults.
But human beings aren’t hard wired for 24/7 solitude. You need a community of peers that provide a loving and safe environment.
The rebuilding phase after a divorce is not the time to stay home alone and forgo any type of social interaction—definitely not.
Catholic Match is an excellent start to finding that essential, supportive community.
But jumping back into a heavy romantic relationship before you’re ready will lead you to making more mistakes.